Saturday, September 27, 2008

Scrutinising the Relational Formation and Development between Trio in Harry Potter

Lazing around while holding a novel in my hand is my favourite pastime. One such novel that is often seen around me is JK Rowling's Harry Potter series so please bear with me in this post as I put on my Harry-Potter-glasses and reveal my inner geek.

Amazingly brilliant plot aside, I admire the way Rowling portrayed the characters and the different relationship or magical bonds between them. Some notable ones include the trio's friendship, Harry Potter's mysterious link with Lord Voldermort and the ancient magical bond between Harry Potter and his mother.


Small little people but with spiderweb-like entangling with one another

J K Rowling did an amazing job at establishing the friendship between the trio in the series. For one, the trio were not all agreeable at the start of the series. There was an unmistakable disdain between the the two boys and Hermione due to the glaring dissimilarities between them. Hermione was exceptionally perspicacious and by-the-book while the two boys were hazardous in nature. Yet, as Rowling so aptly wrote, "There are some things you can't share without ending up liking each other, and knocking out a twelve-foot mountain troll is one of them."


"Probably a nose-breaking wrestle with Snape in the dungeons?"

That one similar incident made them realise that they do have a similar sense of loyalty towards people who helped them and this attitudinal similarity enabled them to form a bond with one another. This is due to people's tendency to form relationships with those we perceive to be similar to us. The three of them realised that the values they share may be the same despite differences in their characters. Forming relationships due to this reason can reduce our uncertainties about them, reduce the associated risks in the relationship and serve as a form of social validation.

During later parts of the development of their friendship, one will see that their initial dissimilarities (or complementarities) actually sustained their relationship as they function better together than separately. Each of them had specific characteristics that enabled the trio to survive through many treacherous vicissitudes. Harry's valour motivated the trio to brave the many obstacles, Hermione's brilliance with spells warded off many magical disasters, and Ron's goofy nature was... well... great moral support? Their dependency on one other was exemplified when cracks appeared in their friendship but they soon realise that their bond was an intrinsic part of each other and patched up soon enough.

JK Rowling ingeniously portrayed how similarities and dissimilarities between people can co-exist and, most importantly, build a bond so pure and perennial that it evokes envy among people who yearn true friendship. I believe the series will continue to touch the hearts of many others even after her mortal departure (choy choy choy), becoming an old Classic like Charles Dickens' Great Expectations. It will continue to impart values of courage and loyalty, and teach the future generations of love and friendship.


PS, pictures in this post do not belong to me, click on pictures to reveal credits...

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

The relationship between the Harry Potter characters are indeed very unique. I doubt JK Rowling actually thought that her books can relate so welll to communication theories. =D

One thing I'd like to mention is that the characters' may not have wanted to break the bond because they were afraid of losig out on benefits of their complementry natures. I think it is also because they truly enjoy each others' company, although Harry and Ron were always relying on Hermione to help them with homework. Sometimes, its true friendship that may not require benefits, the benefits that come along are just additional incentives. I think we overrationalize everything into theories.

Anonymous said...

Their initial disdain with one another just proves to show that first impression does count.

Background info: Harry and Ron met on the train. They became friends because they both realise that unlike Hermione, they did not read through the books before going to Hogwarts, needless say memorise them like Hermione did. Thus the first bond was actually between Ron and Harry first and their bond was started due to similarities which were highlighted. Their similarities were (ironically) highlighted by Hermione and at the very same point, her dissimilarities with them were shown. Cool isn't it?

I forgot how we met but I think it was the 'similarity' factor. =D

zz said...

interesting cute pictures u have there..
how true, we often associate ourselves with people who share some sort of similar traits..
our interdependence with our friends are also depicted in that story..
we each have our skills and abilities, and together we can take advantage of this to overcome difficulties..